Press "Enter" to skip to content

What Do Women Want?


Ask any guy out there this question?  “What do women want?”  Many a man would scratch his head and say something really dumb, or be a smart-ass and say something really rude.  How’s a man suppose to know?  In the movie, What Women Want, even Mel Gibson needed to be able to read a woman’s mind to figure it out.  So what chance does the average guy have?

It’s not as tough of a question as it seems and is quickly answered in this short story about King Arthur and the witch…

King Arthur and The Witch

Young King Arthur was ambushed and imprisoned by the monarch of a neighboring kingdom. The monarch could have killed him but was moved by Arthur’s youth and ideals. So, the monarch offered him his freedom, as long as he could answer a very difficult question. Arthur would have a year to figure out the answer and, if after a year, he still had no answer, he would be put to death.

The question?….What do women really want? Such a question would perplex even the most knowledgeable man, and to young Arthur, it seemed an impossible query. But, since it was better than death, he accepted the monarch’s proposition to have an answer by year’s end.

He returned to his kingdom and began to poll everyone: the princess, the priests, the wise men and even the court jester. He spoke with everyone, but no one could give him a satisfactory answer. Many people advised him to consult the old witch, for only she would have the answer. But the price would be high; as the witch was famous throughout the kingdom for the exorbitant prices she charged.

The last day of the year arrived and Arthur had no choice but to talk to the witch. She agreed to answer the question, but he would have to agree to her price first. The old witch wanted to marry Sir Lancelot, the most noble of the Knights of the Round Table and Arthur’s closest friend! Young Arthur was horrified. She was hunchbacked and hideous, had only one tooth, smelled like sewage, made obscene noises, etc. He had never encountered such a repugnant creature in all his life.

He refused to force his friend to marry her and endure such a terrible burden; but Lancelot, learning of the proposal, spoke with Arthur. He said nothing was too big of a sacrifice compared to Arthur’s life and the preservation of the Round Table.

Hence, a wedding was proclaimed and the witch answered Arthur’s question thus: What a woman really wants, she answered….is to be in charge of her own life! Everyone in the kingdom instantly knew that the witch had uttered a great truth and that Arthur’s life would be spared. And so it was, the neighboring monarch granted Arthur his freedom and Lancelot and the witch had a wonderful wedding.

The honeymoon hour approached and Lancelot, steeling himself for a horrific experience, entered the bedroom. But, what a sight awaited him. The most beautiful woman he had ever seen lay before him on the bed. The astounded Lancelot asked what had happened.

The beauty replied that since he had been so kind to her when she appeared as a witch, she would henceforth, be her horrible deformed self only half the time and the beautiful maiden the other half. Which would he prefer? Beautiful during the day…or night?

Lancelot pondered the predicament. During the day, a beautiful woman to show off to his friends, but at night, in the privacy of his castle, an old witch? Or, would he prefer having a hideous witch during the day, but by night, a beautiful woman for him to enjoy wondrous intimate moments?

Noble Lancelot said that he would allow HER to make the choice herself. Upon hearing this, she announced that she would be beautiful all the time because he had respected her enough to let her be in charge of her own life.

The Takeaway

It seems the question doesn’t have a very difficult answer at all.  What women want, well, what we all want, is to be in charge of our own lives.  To be respected for the decisions we make and given the freedom to make them.  Don’t we all just want the freedom to be our own person?  Not only that, but also have the support of the people we love?

You can answer, “of course, we all deserve that”, but do you show that support of the people around you?  Not just what the women in your life want, but also your sons, brothers, dads, and uncles?  Everyone wants to be supported and given the respect to run their own lives.  Of course we want to help by giving our opinion, but that can seem demanding and may not always work out.  Perhaps posing questions to help the people you love to make their own decisions, with clever insights from your own experience, would be more helpful than telling them what to do?

Whatever you decide, be supportive, look out for those you love, and help them make their own decisions.  The road is less bumpy that way, and you can still be there to help guide them along. 

Share with your friends!!!

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *